When my best friend got married a few years back, her mother decided nothing short of the royal wedding would do.She started making a list of guests and was up to three hundred people when the father took his perspective son in law aside and said, "Son, do everyone a favor. Take my girl and elope. I will give you two, ten thousand dollars to start off in life. Heck, I'll be saving money by paying you to elope." Smart man.
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