You did not know that T'Pau was a woman? Didn't they show the original Star Trek series where you were previously? If not, it is quite understandable as Grandma/T'Pau has a very neuter gender writing style that appeals to most everyone. (Please consider that the compliment it is meant to be.)
I too would like to add my Welcome to Grandma. It is good to see so many familiar faces here. Please do pull your rocking chair over by the fire to join more of us. Its great with a steaming cup of Hot Chocolate. Excuse me for a few minutes while I find Murphy and ask where are my knishes? He promised he'd send to New York or Baltimore MD to one of my favorite delis, but I still haven't seen any (Murphy, are you listening? 8^). But I know Murphy will come through, he always does. So sit back, relax, and tell us how have you been? We missed you.
Space Turtel, CS of Area-51